Beth Williamson’s Blog

Monday’s eye candy for your viewing pleasure. Love me some David Beckham. And with that, I wish you all a fabulous Christmas Eve!!

Finally! I’m feeling better today. Yay! I’m two days behind in my writing goals (dammit) but at least the evil virus is starting to fade. I hope everyone is having a good weekend - two days until Christmas.

My conversation yesterday with the 15 YO:

Him: Can I open a present?
Me: No.
Him: (holds up a small gift from his grandmother) How about a small one?
Me: No. Good things come in small packages you know.
Him: (points at a large gift) Then how about a big one?

My conversation today with the 15 YO:

Him: Can I open a present tomorrow?
Me: No.
Him: (sticks out bottom lip)

Note the 11 YO has not asked me to open a gift, however, he does consistently tell me how many days until Christmas.

I’m sick. Feel like I’ve been run over by a steamroller. No witty posts this weekend, hopefully I’ll feel better in a couple of days.

Hope everyone is doing well and has a good weekend. Catch you on Monday, k?

I got the first ten of these from the amazing Ciar Cullen - I added three more. It made me LOL when I read it. :)

Thirteen Dieting Tips for the Holiday Season

1. Avoid carrot sticks. Anyone who puts carrots on a holiday buffet table knows nothing of the Christmas spirit. In fact, if you see carrots, leave immediately. Go next door, where they’re serving rum balls.

2. Drink as much eggnog as you can. And quickly. Like fine single-malt scotch, it’s rare. In fact, it’s even rarer than single-malt scotch. You can’t find it any other time of year but now. So drink up! Who cares that it has 10,000 calories in every sip? It’s not as if you’re going to turn into an eggnog-oholic or something. It’s a treat. Enjoy it. Have one for me. Have two. It’s later than you think. It’s Christmas!

3. If something comes with gravy, use it. That’s the whole point of gravy. Gravy does not stand alone. Pour it on. Make a volcano out of your mashed potatoes. Fill it with gravy. Eat the volcano. Repeat.

4. As for mashed potatoes, always ask if they’re made with skim milk or whole milk. If it’s skim, pass. Why bother? It’s like buying a sports car with an automatic transmission.

5. Do not have a snack before going to a party in an effort to control your eating. The whole point of going to a Christmas party is to eat other people’s food for free. Lots of it. Hello????

6. Under no circumstances should you exercise between now and New Year’s. You can do that in January when you have nothing else to do. This is the time for long naps, which you’ll need after circling the buffet table while carrying a 10-pound plate of food and that vat of eggnog.

7. If you come across something really good at a buffet table, like frosted Christmas cookies in the shape and size of Santa, position yourself near them and don’t budge. Have as many as you can before becoming the center of attention. They’re like a beautiful pair of shoes. If you leave them behind, you’re never going to see them again.

8. Same for pies. Apple. Pumpkin. Mincemeat. Have a slice of each. Or if you don’t like mincemeat, have two apples and one pumpkin. Always have three. When else do you get to have more than one dessert? Labor Day?

9. Did someone mention fruitcake? Granted, it’s loaded with the mandatory celebratory calories, but avoid it at all cost. I mean, you have to have some standards.

10. Mixed drinks - it’s that time of year isn’t it? When you pull off the dainty “I’ll have a Cosmo” gloves and get some real drinks? Have a Black Russian (the drink, not the man, but hey, you pick), a Long Island iced tea (top shelf of course) or maybe even a Kamikaze. Whatever you prefer, just as long as there is at least two hard liquors in there and plenty of calories and buzz power.

11. Two words - Candy Canes. They’re only around for about a month so eat as many as you can while you can. They come in all kinds of designer flavors too, although peppermint helps clear the sinuses after all that fruicake.

12. If you have occasion to get homemade bread of any time, be sure to slather on the butter. I mean, what’s fresh bread for anyway except to load it down with delicious, salty butter. Yum.

13. One final tip: If you don’t feel terrible when you leave the party or get up from the table, you haven’t been paying attention. Reread tips; start over, but hurry, January is just around the corner.

Remember this motto to live by: Have a great holiday season!
‘Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming ‘WOO HOO what a ride!

You know, sometimes I just shouldn’t Google myself. We writers tend to get a little obsessive with checking on things like reviews, Amazon rankings and best sellers lists, so we Google ourselves like I did last night.

*sigh*

I found several hits on some forms and let me tell y’all, they weren’t good (insert negative description of choice). You see, I write in varying heat levels and some folks are expecting the same amount of sex/kink/heat in every book I write. Honestly, the story tells itself in terms of how far it will go. I’ve been dinged a few times on Amazon reviews by people expecting more erotica than sensual romance - I have to put a warning that says “explicit sex” because there is explicit language and sex in my books.

That doesn’t mean kink/bondage/MM/gratuitous humping. Apparently it’s pissed some readers off and they have no qualms about telling people to avoid my writing or slamming me silly.

*double sigh*

I think everyone is entitled to their opinions and preferences but to completely dismiss my writing just plain hurts. Yes, I agree that my earlier books (from 2005 and 2006) do not have the maturity level in terms of writing that my newer books have. Absolutely true - every writer should grow and hone their craft the more they’ve been at it. But please, y’all, remember that writers are people too and if you didn’t like the book you read, let people know. However, it’s not okay to bash the writer to pieces - a person is much different than a book.

Pity party over. Back to your regular scheduled programming.